The Ground Just Cracked
Finding out about an affair shakes everything. This article offers grounded guidance — no blame, no false hope — just clarity, steady truth, and what it takes to heal or walk away.
When You’re the One Who Stepped Outside
You crossed a line — not just in your relationship, but in yourself. This post explores what it means to face an affair honestly, without excuses, and decide who you want to become next.
When a Friend Grieves
When a friend grieves, advice often falls flat. Men’s grief is quiet, heavy, unseen. Support doesn’t mean fixing — it means staying close, present, and real.
The Death of a Pet
The death of a dog is never “just” a loss. For many men, it cuts deep — silent grief that lingers, unspoken, yet shaped by love and presence that can’t be replaced.
When Work Falls Away
For many men, when work falls away, grief goes deeper than lost income. It’s the tearing of rhythm, role, and identity — and the long, painful process of meeting yourself again.
How Men Grieve — Pain That Has Nowhere to Go
Men’s grief is often silent and unseen. In Switzerland, I work with men facing loss, separation, or identity shifts — helping them carry grief without losing strength, and find space for meaning again.
Affairs: Breaking and Rebuilding Trust
Affairs don’t just break promises. They rip through trust, identity, and love itself. In Nyon, Lausanne & Online, I help couples face betrayal and decide what survives.
Grieving After Break-Up
When a relationship ends, men often carry grief in silence — between anger, numbness and fatherhood. This piece explores how to face loss without armour, and stay present through the pain.
Arguing with ChatGPT: How It Fabricated My Own Book
Some clients say ChatGPT helps. Others say it wrecks. I caught it fabricating pages of my book — and it thought it could get away with it.
Long Reads
Long Reads
Articles & Reflections
Articles & Reflections
Welcome to Long Reads, my collection of articles and reflections. This is a space where I go deeper on topics like counselling, personal growth, relationships and their quirks, and the complexities of life. These articles aim to inform and inspire, offering insights into themes like presence, parenting, intimacy, and inner work. While they are not a substitute for therapy, they provide a window into the topics that often arise in the journey toward healing, wholeness and self-understanding.
Welcome to Long Reads — articles and reflections on counselling, growth, relationships, and life’s complexities. They offer insights on presence, parenting, intimacy, and inner work — not therapy, but a window into healing and self-understanding.
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